Jan 08, 2013 Eyes On Him I have come to realize the my son has taught me to slow down and take it easy. Even though he is an active child, there are times when he just sits, plays, and observes. When he behaves likes this I sit near him and watch what he's doing. My eyes are only on him. I try not to think about all the tasks that I need to do. I try not to look at my phone to see if I received an email. I just try to focus on my son. We might be sitting there for only 5 minutes, but it's a very nice feeling to be in the moment. So, to all dads out there...give it a try, and just enjoy watching your child.